Piece of memory from a beautiful late night dream...

Beautiful love creates beautiful kisses...

It's When....

It's when heart decides....

It's when heart knows what's right...

It's when doubt lost...

And questions exist no more...

It's when no words ever right enough to describe...

And no logic ever smart enough to explain...

The Love grows inside...

It's when Faith lingering the two of us...

And Love fill in the both of us...

It's when our hearts become one...

It's when we look each other in the eyes...

With a wordless smile...

And we know...

That we are home now...

Love is all there is...

...Freedom is the only thing that can exist in the space of Love...
(Conversation with God - The uncommon dialogue)


Talking about Love in its universality meanings...
Then freedom comes as the centre of the discussion...

One really nice phrase I read in one good book says that ‘freedom is the only thing that can exist in the space of Love’…

Is it really?

After some time contemplating the statement… It is really…

This is how I see it…


Human soul and change

Human, as Life itself, changing all the time..
Nothing is ever the same... What consistent is the inconsistency itself...

As hard as we try to be the same, or force things to keep the same, we won't be able to resist the change happening with everything surround us as well as the change happening within us...

It took me a while to understand this thing...

Years back, when I was so young, there were moments I remember when friends will push us further from their circle whenever they feel that we are changing... Into someone they don't know.. When 'change' is something to be avoided... no matter how good or bad the change itself... It is avoided simply because it presents something new,, something unfamiliar,, yet creates insecurity... A lot of times in Life, status quo chosen as the best solution only because the security and familiarity it gives... Yet by choosing so, we fail to see the beauty or at least knowing the beauty of the new things...

Back to ourselves as a human, as a soul, we keep on changing... conscious or unconsciously... There is one thing I have been thinking for some time, that we can measure our growth as a soul by how often people succeed to define us as a person... The moment we are being understood and easily defined is the sign that we stop to grow, or more precisely resting a bit too long in one stage of Life...

This is taken from the introduction chapter of The Madman by Kahlil Gibran:
....And I have found both freedom of loneliness and the safety from being understood, for those who understand us enslave something in us...

Freedom and space to grow

Then as human keeps on changing... How can we keep on loving people we love when they constantly change? What if the side that I love dissapear and change into another side that I don't know? And even before I get acquainted with the new side, it starts to tranform into some other new side that I have no idea on what it will become...

Love then is all about giving freedom and space to people we love to be who they really are... To see them as one whole package...

The easiest example is when we talk about Love between couple.. A lot of times the theme of fights or arguments are about differences and the 'bad' side of our couple.. The analogy that perfectly represent this situation is color...

When we say that we love our couple is the same way when I say that I love grey color!... Yet the statement of 'I love my couple' will mostly follows by but....... I don't like it when He/She is bla bla bla... and also when He/She is being bla bla bla... It will be like saying I love grey color but I don't like black color... Yet grey is a combination of white and black.. Both are what consist grey color... They are completing one another into the lovely grey color that we love...

A lot people will find it hard to accept this... Yes,, because the framework is still black and white... Good and bad... Let's try another color that might help us understand this more clearly.. Say that I love Orange color and loving red color and yellow as two main primary colors that consist orange... As red is as beautiful as the yellow and both creates the color I love the most - Orange-...

So it is all about seeing people we love for who they really are, as nothing is bad, because one completes the other to creates the person for whom He/She really is...

And most importantly is about giving space for them to grow... Not stopping them by making judgements nor definition of who they are... But loving them as a constantly growing soul... And by time we will always find new amazement in the person we love... It's experiencing new Love all the way...

It's about being fair and respectful

What makes the effort sometimes hard is when our surroundings do not have the same way of thinking as we are...

Along the way people creates a lot of bias and see us from one single particular point of view that sometimes does not represent even one single percent of who we really are...

Bias as well comes by judgement and definition that born from comparison... Comparing us in the measurement of other people... Yet every single soul is unique, nothing is the same... Nothing in this universe is duplication as God is the almighty Creator... God creates not duplicate nor replicate...

Yet we can not control other people... We can only be responsible for who we are... Being conscious includes conscious about what things surround us might make us feel and take control over it before it takes control over us..

Wrong thought, perspective, and bias about us shall not make us create the same things to the other person... As by doing so we are not being fair because we, as they are, just see them for one single small side that might not at all represent who they really are..

It is how we try to be respectful even when those respect does not returning back to us... Yet Life is not a trade centre where profit or loss is what matters...

I believe when we succeed to understand and implement these.. That will be the moment when the statement of 'I love you' becomes the real truth :)

So for those blocking their heart for me before even knowing me for who I really am, I am trying as hard as I can to be fair to you… To see you for the real you and to know you for the real you … Praying you’ll be able to do the same… Yet if you fail to do so… No worries… I’ll love you for you…